Friday, May 13, 2011

Easy Memory Makers

     All parents want their children to grow up with happy childhood memories.  While Big trips, Big gifts, and Big events are impressive and certainly memorable, it can be the little everyday moments that kids will remember and cherish most.
     Here are ten easy everyday ways to fill your child's life with special moments so you'll be remembered as an extra special parent.

1.   SKY WATCH
      Try to catch special events like eclipses, meteor showers and comets.  Or just plain star gaze and moon watch.  A telescope is great fun but not necessary. By day, look at cloud formations and sun position. 
2.   EARTH WATCH
      Short nature walks lead to long memories.  Point out flowers, trees, animals and insects.  Look for bird nests, cocoons, etc.
3    USE PET NAMES
     Nicknames work anywhere but personal only-at-home pet names are fun and make kids feel special.
4.  WRITE NOTES
     Children love notes.  Leave a simple "See you later," "Have fun," or "Love you" on the pillow or fridge when you leave the house.  Tuck notes into backpacks and lunch bags, too.  Messages on cell phones, e-mail and answering machines are a nice surprise. 
5.   HUG
     Hug hello, good-bye, good night, good morning, or for no reason at all.  It's so easy!
6.   USE FOOD COLOR
     And use it often for instant celebrations.  Kids are so impressed!  Pink milk for Happy Spring, red for Valentine's Day.  Trust me.  Green mashed potatoes will not be forgotten!
7.   PARTY
     The team wins a game - have a party.  Celebrate half-birthdays (no presents - but cake or a special dessert is a must); the first day of school; the last day of school; good report cards and more.  Use your imagination.  Any occasion can turn into a party.  Keep a roll of crepe paper at hand and decorate in seconds!
8.   SAY YES
     Try to say YES more than NO.  Kids will love you for your "That's a great idea" or "Sure, let's give it a try."  It also raises their self esteem and opens creative minds.
9.   LEARN ABOUT THEIR WORLD
     Keep up on the kids' TV, music, movies and fashion.  Don't aim for hip and cool, aim for knowledgable.
10.  ONE BIG DON'T
     Don't try to be your child's best friend.  Try to be you child's best parent!